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New Years Resolutions or All-Year-Round Self Care?

Amanda
Hope Team Member since 2014

I feel very fortunate to have been involved in Hope since day one, it was Nayna’s vision for the culture of the brand that was as important as the style of the collection. The importance of team and feminine leadership values was always essential, so to that end, at around 1.00pm every day, we down tools to prepare and eat lunch together at the office kitchen table (or more like Nayna’s kitchen table!). This gives us a chance for quality conversation rather than snatched conversations in between trying to eat a sandwich at the desk and type an email... we’ve all done it!

It was at one of our lunches this week that we got to talking about how we all glaze over at yet another article or post on New Year resolutions, getting fit, eating clean and so on. Why is it at this time of year we feel so bombarded and under pressure to feel perfect? All we have done is had a wonderful Christmas and New Year celebrating with family and friends.

Personally, I never do New Year’s resolutions, I prefer to take stock of my life and do a ‘life audit’, a kind of January re-set: what’s going well, what not so well, and focus on plans for the year. In my 47th year, I truly believe it’s more about ‘self-care’ than anything else. For me, it was my mid-thirties when I started to realise the importance of looking after yourself and fell in love with the gym to combat my very sweet tooth! Having two dogs means I’ve always got to get out and walk, no matter what the weather, but there’s nothing like cardio to give you that wonderful post workout feeling. Then having our son in my late thirties very much focused the mind that, with so many other health risks, you need to do anything you can to look after yourself in order to be a parent for as long as possible, so it was time to re-set.


 

So, my top tips to you if you are feeling lack-lustre and need a confidence boost this January....

  • Be kind to yourself
  • Take it one step at a time, introducing one small goal a day
  • Focus on the things that make you happy
  • Go outside once a day, if not for a walk just to stand and breathe in the fresh air
  • When things get very stressful, breathe in for 3 seconds, hold, then out for 4
  • And finally, smile, it makes you feel better!

 

Look out for the Blog later this month for some words of wisdom from friend of the brand, Hope model and loyal Customer, Debbie Atkins. Debbie decided to take her passion for health and fitness and make it her business: DA Fitness. We can't wait to read it!

We’d love to hear what challenges you are facing this January, and share what works for you.

I came across this quote on instagram recently which I think really sums it up:

“You can’t pour from an empty cup. Take care of yourself first.”

Happy January!

Amanda x

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4 thoughts on “New Years Resolutions or All-Year-Round Self Care?”

  • Made me think! At 71 I am always busy looking after everyone else, grown up children, grandchildren, husband and forget about me time. I am going to learn to be kind to me! Thank you Amanda x

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    • Dear Lynne,

      Thanks for leaving a reply, delighted to hear we have inspired you to take some 'me time'!

      Amanda x

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      • Dear Amanda,

        Made me think too. Someone recently told me to show myself the same devotion I do for my family and friends which I am going to do right now by having a long bath while watching Game of Thrones. It's also encouraged me to keep at my walnut salad...Thank you!

        Leyla x

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